Contact Us: (250) 426-3132 | 1-800-619-4222
Tribute Wall
Loading...
d
The family of Shirley Louise Clark Ruppel uploaded a photo
Tuesday, October 15, 2019
/tribute-images/731/Ultra/Shirley-Clark-Ruppel.jpg
Please wait
S
Safeway Pharmacy lit a candle
Wednesday, October 30, 2013
//s3.amazonaws.com/skins.funeraltechweb.com/tribute-gestures/Candle.png
Safeway Pharmacy lit a candle in memory of Shirley Louise Clark Ruppel
S
Susan Turner posted a condolence
Monday, October 7, 2013
Tracy - I came across your Mom's Obituary quite by accident and I want you to know how sorry I am for your loss. I have thought of you from time to time and all the time we spent hanging out with our (then) little girls, Erin and Katie, in your Mom's basement suite. I always aspired to be as organized and creative as your Mom was - I think we still have the doll she made for Katie out of the hooded sleeper. She was a fine example of a Latter-day Saint woman. I am so sorry we lost touch, but I hope you are well.
---- Susan Turner, Agassiz BC
N
Nena Jean Trimble posted a condolence
Saturday, October 5, 2013
This note is from Shirley's friend Jean Trimble: Since her passing, I have had a difficult time to put decades of wonderful thoughts and memories in print here. We have been friends since early 1970's. In the LDS Church is where we met and Shirley gave so much with every single class she taught; in the Craft Fairs we worked in and with other women in Relief Society. She was truly an artist. And I remember Harry & Shirley in each of the homes they lived in .. one on 14th Ave. near Woodland Grocery; their home near the Cranbrook Golf Course and for so many years where Harry & Shirley devoted all they could muster up in parenting and grandparenting. I remember her children when they were quite young and when they married and Julie married Jack and away they went to Spokane; Corinne & Larry in eastern USA Tracy as she met her love, and Allison when she married ~ ~ ~ Just like our children who were about the same age. I do not know how Shirley managed to keep family ties nice and snug and the Genealogy she collected and cared so much about life after this for all those generations ago she sent all of her genealogy in to the Archives. I recently talked her ear off about Great Gatsby And the writings of Scott Fitzgerald. Shirley wanted to talk about his books, but we can leave these books of his until I get to the other side.
Meanwhile, to Harry and all of your family, my heart really goes out to you. Having your special time at Thanksgiving will be so nice for all of you. Love to you all.
Jean.
Tracey, only if you can, pls. call me. K?
E
Erin Boisselle posted a condolence
Friday, October 4, 2013
It has been almost 2 weeks since i last had the chance to see you!! My loving, caring, amazing Grandma!!! Mid September i got a feeling in my stomach that i really should take advantage of the days off that had been randomly given to me and come down and visit you. Jayden and i were so excited to come and visit you in the hospital and bring you some happy smiles and love!!! I am so so so very glad that i listened to my feelings and drove down. I hold the memory of our last chats so close. I will never watch the Price is Right now without a smile and a warm fuzzy in my heart. Jayden and i will always have so many amazing memories of coming to visit you, but this last one will be most special. I had the honor of being the last one to kiss and hug you and that is not something i take lightly.
I feel so privileged to have been able to call you my grandma. You were and always will be such a shining light and example for not just me and my son, but for everyone in the family, and the good friends you made along the way.
I share many of the great memories and love that everyone has shared so far on here and i am so happy to be able to read the beautiful tributes. I was thinking the other day, that bar literally only 2 or 3 summers, i have spent every single summer in all of my 32 years with you and Grandad. You both helped shape me and i am the person i am today in part because of the two of you!!
I feel as though i have so much to say, yet i find myself struggling for the right words. This is rare as i am always the one ready with a ton to say. :) Know that to me you weren't just a grandma, but a secondary mother and friend. Know that to Jayden you were his great grandma that he talked about with pride and that he cared for so so deeply. He was so attentive to your needs and always wanted to be there to help you into your chair, or make sure you were comfortable.
Grandma we love you. You will be missed. We take comfort in knowing that you are finally at peace. Your greatest accomplishment is us. Family. Love. Forever. XOXOXO
E
Erin Boisselle posted a condolence
Thursday, October 3, 2013
I agree. That poem was amazing. It was so touching.
K
Kimberly Alexander posted a condolence
Sunday, September 29, 2013
Becky that poem is beautiful, thank you for posting it. I had never heard it before and it means so much to have read it.
B
Becky Foster posted a condolence
Thursday, September 26, 2013
I never had the pleasure of meeting Shirley in person, yet I feel like I knew her. Not only because of the occasional cards and letters shared over the past few years, but because of the significant role she played in making me feel like a member of this family. Through the afghan she made me when I was first dating Jack III, the Pampered Chef supplies she sent to stock my newly-wed kitchen, and the blankets she crocheted for my newborn babies, she showed her love and welcomed me as her granddaughter-in-law.
I always assumed that I'd meet her someday, that we'd make a family trip up to Canada and I'd be able to spend time in her kitchen chatting with her about cooking and crocheting and cats. I grieve because I'll never have that opportunity. But I also rejoice because of the peace she has through God's saving grace. She always showed love through actions and gifts, and how He has done the same for her.
I heard once that Shirley liked to write poems. The following was a favorite of my own grandmother, and now I will always think of Grandma Ruppel as well when I read it:
Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free
I'm following the path God laid for me.
I took His hand when I heard Him call;
I turned my back and left it all.
I could not stay another day,
To laugh, to love, to work or play.
Tasks left undone must stay that way;
I found that place at the close of day.
If my parting has left a void,
Then fill it with remembered joy.
A friendship shared a laugh, a kiss;
Ah yes, these things, I too will miss.
Be not burdened with times of sorrow
I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow.
My life's been full, I savored much;
Good friends, good times, a loved ones touch.
Perhaps my time seems all to brief;
Don't lengthen it now with undue grief.
Lift up your heart and share with me,
God wanted me now, He set me free.
-Author Uknown
J
Julianne Foster posted a condolence
Thursday, September 26, 2013
Thank you for your beautiful tribute Janel. <3
J
Julianne Foster posted a condolence
Thursday, September 26, 2013
Thank you Elaine. My Mum thought the world of you. I'm glad you were a part of her life and she was a part of yours. You were both better people from your association. :)
J
Julianne Foster posted a condolence
Thursday, September 26, 2013
Very well said Jack, III. Thanks for sharing. <3
J
Jack Foster posted a condolence
Thursday, September 26, 2013
The echo of feelings from Janel's post from Candice's I feel will resurface in every post from each grandchild(myself included), child, in-laws, and friends because that is who my Grandmother was. A giver of Joy and love.
Time has a way of moving families physically apart but this separation does nothing to destroy the bonds already made. Grandma made sure those bonds we're remembered with all the little tributes of love she would send. Remembering birthdays and wedding dates and sending things she'd made which now are scattered throughout my house and all our houses. Candice mentioned her bunny ornaments, my little boys have my little boy ornaments up on shelves in their room. The cats have ironically claimed two of the afghans she made my wife and I; which i find historically ironic being my love of cats originates from her through my mum. (they obviously thought grandma send the afghans for them). And then their is the kitchen ware we use every day, as she bestowed an arsenal to my wife for our wedding present (She was barely a cook too when we got married, and now is a master chef I must add). Grandma helped mold every one of her grandchildren even if they moved afar.
Obviously, I wish that I could of brought my own children to meet her before this day came. However, she taught me that taking care of your children (grandchildren, ect.) is the most important thing that we can do in this life. Bringing them to an understanding of love and keeping the connections strong that bond us. So even though we were unable to bring them to meet her, I know that they will know her because of all the treasures both physical and emotional she left with all of us that will ever be around.
I love you Grandma. May God's grace bring you to him in peace.
e
elaine wilson posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 25, 2013
Over the years my relationship with Shirley has been reduced to the sending and receiving of Christmas cards and letters. This does not mean, however, that I did not think of her often and fondly. Shirley was one of the first friends I made after coming to Canada in 1974. She was my co-worker and mentor who shared her knowledge and expertise unselfishly. She welcomed me and my family into her life and that of Harry and the girls. She introduced me to genealogy and invited me to many open evenings at the church. [she did not try to convert me either to her religion or to her love of cats] I still have a few of the craft items she made including the headdress she made for Jayne's wedding. I have recounted, often, her confession that she NEVER parallel parked and just went around until she found a space to drive into.
She was the best of friends and leaves me with a host of happy memories.
We send our sincerest condolences to Harry, the girls and their families.
Elaine Wilson and family [ Edmonton]
J
Jen Currie lit a candle
Wednesday, September 25, 2013
//s3.amazonaws.com/skins.funeraltechweb.com/tribute-gestures/Candle.png
Shirley, I remember the last time we saw each other at Top Crop both of us having difficulty. I know your family misses you terribly and I will always remember our brief conversations. Rest in peace Shirley.
J
Janel Gourdet posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 25, 2013
I echo Candice's tribute--our Grandma was so generous and thoughtful to all of us grandchildren. Even when we lived too far away for frequent visits, she always made sure we knew she loved us. She found ways to make us feel special by sending us her beautiful crocheted afghans, stuffed toys, and barbie dresses.
At the end of August of this year I was lucky to be able to take a trip to Cranbrook with my mom and sister, Maria. It was such a blessing to see Grandma one last time. Despite everything she was so positive and never complained. Her memory for and interest in what was going on in every family member's life was amazing. Even with having to deal with her illnesses she still kept track of what was happening with me, my husband (whom she unfortunately didn't get a chance to meet), even down to my little pet kitten! I think it was her way of making sure all her family was taken care of--she wanted to do as much as possible to make sure everyone she loved was happy.
Also seeing the love that Grandma and Grandad had for each other after all these years of being together was inspiring. I saw this in little ways--Grandad making sure Grandma was comfortable, them finishing each other's stories, etc.
At the end of our visit, Grandma gave me her unfinished crochet projects that she was unable to work on because her hands shook. Having these beautiful afghans started by my Grandmother that I can finish for my own family and future children means the world to me. I will always have a part of her with me and hope to grow more like her.
In loving remembrance,
Janel
J
Julianne Foster posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 25, 2013
I have almost 55 years of wonderful memories of my Mother.
She started her married life not knowing how to cook, but by the time I was old enough to remember, her cooking was superb.
She spent her lifetime learning new things and making the most out of every day. She didn't graduate from high school but spoke, wrote and worked as if she had a college degree. She loved word games and it was pretty near to impossible for me to beat her at Upwords!
She became an accomplished seamstress and sewed all of mine and Tracy's school clothes for our first few years of elementary school when dresses were required for girls. Tracy and I took baton lessons when we were very young and Mum sewed us beautiful blue satin parade uniforms with sequence and adorable little blue caps. She was extremely sick with pneumonia, but she got them done.
When I was 10 years old Mum almost died from pneumonia and an allergic reaction to penicillin. She was in the hospital in Victoria. After the 1st week in the hospital I came down with pneumonia also and was admitted to the hospital. I was there for 2 weeks the same time as Mum. Our rooms were across the court yard from each other and a few times I was able to look out my window at the same time she was looking out hers and wave to her.
I have happy childhood memories of camping in the Okanogan during our summer vacations when we lived in Victoria. I didn't learn until I was an older teenager that Mum hated camping. She never let us know that when we were younger and on vacation. She was a real trooper. I was convinced she was having a great time. lol
She has made many sacrifices for me throughout her life and never complained. When I was 5 months pregnant with Jack, III my water broke and I had to go on complete bed rest. I had 3 young girls to care for so my Mum came down to California and stayed and took care of me, Jack, Candice, Kim and Christal for 4 months. She only went home once for a week during that entire time.
She was a wonderful Grandma to my children and they all have special memories of her, a great collection of ornaments and several crocheted afgans. She unselfishly gave her all to her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
She unleashed my love of cats (especially Siamese) when she brought Mayling into our lives when I was 10. Except for 2 years in college I've always had a cat in my home since then. Her most beloved cat was Shangti, who unfortunately only loved her and Dad. lol She did create a Facebook page for Foofoo who documented many of Mum's falls that she had in 2009 and 2010.
She always had a flower garden outside every spring and summer in every home we lived in. She loved snapdragons, petunias and pansies. She and dad also grew a vegetable garden almost every summer. Mum used to can fruit in the summer when I was young. I especially loved her canned cherries, plums and crab apples.
Mum got me my first job at age 17 as a receptionist and legal secretary at the law office where she worked at the time. I worked there during Easter break, and the next 2 summers. It was a great job and I was so proud of the work that she did as a conveyancing secretary.
I could go on and on and on but will end with how much I love my Mother and will forever! I miss her already but I'm happy she's no longer suffering and is at peace!
Julianne (Julie) Ruppel Foster
C
Candice Foster Moore posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 24, 2013
Grandma whenever I think of you (which is daily) my thoughts are filled with childhood memories.The feelings of warmth and love, the smells of amazing food always cooking. Vacations we took together. Sleeping in the bed next to you listening to the trains outside your window and of course your snoring. haha, Black Licorice candy always sitting out in candy dishes when we came to visit. She gave me her roll recipe a few years ago that I now make for my family during holidays. Even though they are delicious they just don't have the same mouth watering taste that they have when Grandma made them for us.When I think of your loud "cackle" of a laugh it makes me smile and laugh to myself. I still have Ornaments for my Christmas tree, and bunny ornaments she bought for me to collect every year until my 12th birthday. I LOVED waiting to see what the next one would be. A crocheted stuffed boy doll I named Sam, (and now I have a Sam of my own) and a baby book she had made, and of course the baby blankets and afghans she made for my boys and Scott and I. All things which I treasure. I remember my last trip to Canada to visit after High school graduation. And how I wished so many times since then that I was able to come back and visit with my husband and boys. But still grateful that technology made it possible to keep in contact from time to time. Grandma you were always smiling and laughing, caring for everyone around you. Even though we were far apart I knew you were there and always cared and I carried that with me in my heart. And I know even though you may be gone from this earth we are closer now in spirit then we were before. And you are watching over all of us smiling down and cackling with your family on the other side. And that makes me smile and brings great comfort and peace. Until we meet again Grandma. I Love you! ~Candy
T
Tracy posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 24, 2013
Mom, I miss you so much already, you were my best friend!! Allison and I just viewed your body and you look so beautiful and peaceful! You will be deeply missed by all the family and we all know how much you loved us!! Sleep in peace Mom, love Tracy
P
Paul Boisselle posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 24, 2013
Written by Paul Boisselle (Son-in-Law)
The work i do in my early morning job allows me a lot of time to contemplate. This morning's topic of consideration was how thoroughly my Mother In Law Shirley Ruppel destroyed the old cliche stereotype of a mother in law. I recently considered at that contemplative time of morning how i've now been married to my fantastic wife longer thatn i had been alive at the time when we got married.
In that time i have been blessed with an amazing mother in law. I sported nice clothes and comfy pajamas from Tops N Trends when she sold those, had the finest Discovery Toys books and games to help my young children grow up smart and healthy. I smelled better with the Avon things she got for us, and i don't know where i'd be in the kitchen without all the fabulous Pampered Chef items we got from her over the years.
Those material things mean nothing when i consider the love that went into quilts and Afghans for my kids and myself even. Surprise visits with encouragement when our little family most needed it. The knowledge that she looked after my dear nieces and nephews when they most needed her. Knowing that she tried in so many ways to help me to be a better man and father to her grandchildren and even had my back at some crucial junctions in this life.
I always appreciated the closeness that she and Tracy had all along the way and took comfort that they never let more than a couple of days go between phone calls. Her influence for good has been felt deeply and weill be deeply missed.
I am thankful that she is able to rest from her earthly cares until we meet again.
CRANBROOK
Location
2200 - 2nd Street South
Cranbrook, BC
V1C 1E1
PHONE: (250) 426-3132
TOLL FREE:
1-800-619-4222
FAX: (250)-426-5811
Kimberley
Location
1885 Warren Ave.
Kimberley, BC
V1A 1R9
PHONE: (250) 426-3132
TOLL FREE:
1-800-619-4222
FAX: (250)-426-5811